For many, the new year represents a time for change, a
fresh start, a chance to set new goals. Some of us vow
to lose the extra pounds gained during holiday feasts.
And a few of us may commit to learning a new language.
Others want to land that promotion they've been seeking.
We jot down goals and share them at New Year's Eve
cocktail parties. And many of us trudge to the gym five
or six times during the first two weeks of January.
But eventually, the momentum slows, and old habits
return like a tide.
That's why a lot of people turn to an increasingly
popular choice for help - life coaches.
There are at least 70,000 life coaches worldwide,
according to Coachville.com, an international coaching
organization. They come from all walks of life and set
themselves apart from traditional therapists in training
and philosophy. There are more than 125 coach training
schools across the country, like Coach University, Coach
Training Institute, Coach Training Alliance, and
Coachville.com, just to name a few.
Traditional therapists look back at a client's path
to uncover the source of their problems, while life
coaches take a forward-looking approach. They help their
clients evaluate where they are now and how they can
move forward, goal-oriented.
"Let's assume you're teaching someone how to ride a
bicycle," suggested Debby Parkinson, a Sacramento-based
life coach who has been in the business for 10 years.
"You just walk along beside them while they're learning
to ride that bicycle. You're telling them you believe in
them, and pretty soon they're riding faster and
eventually you're able to let go."
A consultant, Parkinson said, would come in and
analyze the bicycle, take it apart, and then tell you
how it works mechanically and how it would work better.
"A therapist would want to talk to you about, 'Have
you had issues with a bicycle in your past? Have you had
a bad dream about bicycles? Are you afraid of anything
with wheels?' "
Parkinson said that a coach would care about those
issues but wouldn't delve deeply into them. Instead, she
added, a coach would be more likely to say, 'Don't you
feel empowered when you're riding that bicycle?'
"It's an offshoot of life coaching," Aders said. "I
helped one of our clients with a nutrition program, and
helped another client get back into shape after an
injury."
With her help, one client who was on 13 different
medications was able to reduce that number to eight,
using a program of exercise and nutrition that helped
reduce her blood pressure.
She also helped several new mothers lose weight.
"They gained maybe 30 pounds in pregnancy," Aders
said. "And it was after the six-week mark when they
could start working out again. So I helped them get back
into it, and over five months or so, they got back down
to their prebaby weight."
Unlike traditional therapists, a coach does not have
to have a license in order to practice. But there are
agencies that offer credentials. The International
Coaching Federation is one of them.
But far from remaining on the fringes of the therapy
world, coaching programs have grown in popularity to the
extent that colleges like Columbia University (its
Business School and Teachers College has teamed up to
create the Center for Coaching Excellence) are now
providing coaching certification programs.
Before becoming a life coach, Parkinson worked in a
direct marketing company that focused on women. As she
labored her way through the upper ranks of management,
Parkinson discovered that what she enjoyed most about
the job was mentoring the women she worked with and
helping them face the challenges that would make them
more successful.
She now leads her own private practice, where, over
the past 10 years, she has helped 70 clients, mostly
women, who live in 43 states, Canada and Guam. Like many
coaches, she holds her meetings over the phone and finds
referrals over the Internet.
Coaches can specialize in any area, and they often
help others with problems they've overcome themselves.
Parkinson has dealt with Attention Deficit Disorder
(ADD) in her past, and recently helped a client
recognize her own ADD problems and how they were holding
her back. Now that client has become a coach who
specializes in helping children and adults with ADD.
The field of coaching evolved over the past 20 years
from executive consulting and coaching to personal and
life coaching, said Howard Bloom, president of the San
Francisco East Bay chapter of the International Coaching
Federation.
Bloom specializes in coaching clients in
communications and sexuality. He says he got into
coaching because, like a lot of coaches, he has an
entrepreneurial spirit and found it a way to combine his
interests while working for himself.
"I think that would be true of a lot of coaches I've
talked to," Bloom said. "They find coaching to be a
dynamic field. It's a way to integrate many different
things."
He said he worked his way into coaching gradually,
working first as a massage therapist and sex educator.
When he became a coach, his specialty was defined by a
"common thread" that wove through his clients.
Eventually, one of his clients referred to him as a
communication coach. The title stuck.
He attended the Coaches Training Institute in San
Rafael which differs from schools which operate online
or by phone.
His philosophy, he said, is to "look at who you are
in the world and use that information to help you deepen
the learning and forward the action."
But he also said that it's rare for life coaches to
make their living by just seeing individual clients. He
is able to do it by contracting with individual agencies
and conducting workshops. Others teach.
According to the International Coaching Federation
(ICF), a nonprofit professional organization for
personal and business coaches, most coaches working with
individuals charge from $200 to $500 per month.
Corporate coaching programs can cost more, they say, and
range from $1,000 to $10,000 per month.
Coachville.com's general manager of membership, Terri
Zelenak, has her own practice where she coaches "baby
boomers" to have a life filled with "Purpose, Passion
and Pizzazz." She comes from a background in human
resources; she also helped her husband run a small
business.
She says that the fact that universities are offering
coaching credential programs shows that industry
awareness is on the rise.
According to Zelenak, Coachville.com is kicking off
International Coaching Month this February by embarking
on a 100-day "tour-de-ville," where David Buck, the CEO
of Coachville, will stop at a different city every day
and interview coaches and clients to find out what
they're doing to "be unstoppable," and to get a pulse on
what's going on in coaching.
At each stop on the tour from New Jersey to
California, which will include a stop in Vacaville, the
group will produce a telecast and put together an
archival database of the successes and challenges they
find in the world of coaching.
"The challenge is, for 100 days, to do something that
makes you unstoppable," Zelenak said. "Whether it's to
lose 20 pounds, learn Portugese, or get a promotion, for
every 100 days, the challenge is to do something to make
that happen."